Fren,
The cat is already out of the bag - would you expect her to
receive you as a friend? You are now radiating with hidden
intention of love for her.
Put yourself into her shoes.
Lets say if a girl you don't like is very interested in you. She
profess her love in you. Don't you think you would start avoiding
her too? And then she comes and tell you that she just asking you
out as a friend. Don't you think you would suspect her
intentions?
She just tell you that both of you are friends. Get it? Its SOP
for a girl to say that you and her are no longer connected.
Just stay cool and forget about her. Obviously she would
continue to avoid you. But once in a while she may ask you if you
are ok to check out on you. Don't misconstrue that as she giving
opportunity to you - just answer her you are ok and go on with
life.
The thing that I find unfair is that when a girl rejects a guy -
she gets the support from everybody. But when a guy rejects a girl
(even if he was trying to do it nicely) - everybody sympathizes
with the girl and vindicates the guy as a criminal. Its sexism -
unfair.
thanks man.
seriously i don't wanna give a dam abt her lah.
even if she does contact me in the end, i won't take it as a
green light but literally as just a "hi" and maybe that she just
doesn't wanna spoil the frenship.
Basically to say, i won't read too much into it.
it might sound like a foolish statment but I'll leave it to fate
abt this, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be :)
I'm just unhappy that that she miscoomunicated about something
that have lead to the situation to be so bad, if she had that time
communicated correctly, i would have left her alone long time ago
and not even try to ask her out as a fren
