I am handsome and kind… is this not self-praising, aiyah, why
bullshit lah, if someone tells u that are eg handsome u feel good
and when no one tells u that and u feel bad – then know this, u
dont like what u are, u are looking out and seeking out others to
reaffirm your IDEA of yourself, it is
’’real’’ in your head, reality-wise, it means nothing!
If u like what u are, u wont be too bothered as to whether one
likes u or not.