The father here is myself. This the maintenance for my child due
to my situation. I had set out all my reasons in my affidavit in
court. Her lawyer could not break any of my reasons. Btw diapers
are not expensive. only S$18 a huge pack. It seems ony 2 such pack
would be consumed. This is S$450 is high, as she is also supposed
to contribute as she earns S$3000. She managed to charge me this
amount in court because she argued that she has hired a maid to
look after my kid. That is the reason why court ordered me to pay
S$450. Else it would be even lower as it is only 9 months old.
you call your own child an "it" ? No wonder you are not so keen
paying for it. it is not even
human in your eye. How sad.
You are leveraging your wife's $3000 so you don't need to pay a
heftier sum. If she has to stay home and care for your child.. how
is she going to make that $3000 ?
If she has to work, who is going to care for her child ? Bring
it to work too ? Leave it at home alone , like a
dog ? Train it to pee and poop and eat from a bowl you left on the
floor ?
well, it does not survive on diapers alone.
it needs more than diapers. it
will grow up and as it grows, it will cost more
and more. it will soon outgrow all your baby purchases, you'll need
to purchase more age appropriate items all the way until they can
make their own money all by themself.
Maybe you use toilet papers to wipe your child, feed your child
tap water and sunshine, basically let it grow like a weed or a pet
dog. When it falls sick it will crawl its own way to a doctor who
will care for it for free. Perhaps eat other people's poop so it
can immunise itself from all the diseases in our world.
I am a mother, my child cost about $2000 per month . According
to research a child cost about 250k-300k just to raise them ,
not including cost of education.
I make sure my child gets quality clothings, eat good
nutritional food, enjoys toys that stimulate her brains and
learning abilities. Go to the best school for learning and
enrichments. All these are not cheap.
And my husband made sure he has adequate life and health care
insurance for the family just in case something bad happens to
him.
We are saving up for my child education from day one of her
birth. How much are you socking away for it ?
And you think your meagre $450 is gonna cut it because the court
say so ? Tell that to any sensible, responsible father, they will
balk at you.
I feel very sorry for your it. It's father earn
a decent $4500 per month, but cares only for himself. Maybe
it can burn those money for you during your
funeral, if it is willing to attend.
I do not know what you are thinking divorcing your wife when
your child is only 9 month old.
Singaporean men like you sickens any woman, I hope you get
yourself a vasectomy. Don't bother father another
child ever again.
