we had been together for slightly less than a year...we got
along well, our relationship is smooth lovely.
but yesterday, during lunch, she told me she wanna cut her
back-length long hair before chinese new year... into a very short
pixie cut!! she says she is sick of having long hair, n wanna try
something new.
something as short as this! like guy's hairstyle like that. oh my
god. photo ...
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_kFQlLrCa1s4/S6oF9LEBu5I/AAAAAAAAAzA/7lzg05663gE/s1600/Pixie-haircut.jpg
all along she had long hair... n i tried to dissuade her that
the hairstyle is not suitable for her, n look like a dude, later
get mistaken for butch, long hair nicer n prettier n more feminine,
short hair not popular, it might not suit her face n style. (btw
she's those feminine lady-like gal, thats y i think she shld keep
her long hair, or otherwise a chin length bob if she wanna cut it
shorter. not as short as a guy's hair...thats too drastic).
then i think she got angry, n said i dun own her hair. i have no
right to tell her off. shes free to do whatever she wants with her
hair n body. n i think she said she might even wanna shave it bald.
wtf
then we kinda quarrelled, n to make things worse, she said some
negative things about me which spite me. like i m a cheekopeh,
mummy's boy, pervert etc. den also said if i like long hair, ask me
go find another gal with long hair, or go get hooker.
i was angry, but i controlled my anger. n finally she left
halfway throughout the meal.
den now we are not on talking terms. so what should i do?? how
to patch back with her, n more importantly, persuade her not to cut
her hair too short? coz i really love her, n we intend to get
married soon. shes the right one for me, n i feel we r destined to
spend the rest of our lifes together.
(even though we r in our mid 20s, but i already have a condo,
car n financially stable, coz i m working for my father whos a rich
businessman. intending to propose to her maybe sometime this year.
wish to settle down. after all, father already agreed to sponsor
wedding cost, banquet dinner, honeymoon, etc etc)\
i love her long hair leh... i dun think i will like a pixie
haircut on her...its not feminine, n i dun want her hair to be as
short as mine. besides, women with very short hair, cant turn me
on.
