we had been together for slightly less than a year...we got
along well, our relationship is smooth lovely.
but yesterday, during lunch, she told me she wanna cut her
back-length long hair before chinese new year... into a very short
pixie cut!! she says she is sick of having long hair, n wanna try
something new.
something as short as this! like guy's hairstyle like that. oh my
god. photo ...
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_kFQlLrCa1s4/S6oF9LEBu5I/AAAAAAAAAzA/7lzg05663gE/s1600/Pixie-haircut.jpg

all along she had long hair... n i tried to dissuade her that
the hairstyle is not suitable for her, n look like a dude, later
get mistaken for butch, long hair nicer n prettier n more feminine,
short hair not popular, it might not suit her face n style. (btw
she's those feminine lady-like gal, thats y i think she shld keep
her long hair, or otherwise a chin length bob if she wanna cut it
shorter. not as short as a guy's hair...thats too drastic).
then i think she got angry, n said i dun own her hair. i have no
right to tell her off. shes free to do whatever she wants with her
hair n body. n i think she said she might even wanna shave it bald.
wtf
then we kinda quarrelled, n to make things worse, she said some
negative things about me which spite me. like i m a cheekopeh,
mummy's boy, pervert etc. den also said if i like long hair, ask me
go find another gal with long hair, or go get hooker.
i was angry, but i controlled my anger. n finally she left
halfway throughout the meal.
den now we are not on talking terms. so what should i do?? how
to patch back with her, n more importantly, persuade her not to cut
her hair too short? coz i really love her, n we intend to get
married soon. shes the right one for me, n i feel we r destined to
spend the rest of our lifes together.
(even though we r in our mid 20s, but i already have a condo,
car n financially stable, coz i m working for my father whos a rich
businessman. intending to propose to her maybe sometime this year.
wish to settle down. after all, father already agreed to sponsor
wedding cost, banquet dinner, honeymoon, etc etc)\
i love her long hair leh... i dun think i will like a pixie
haircut on her...its not feminine, n i dun want her hair to be as
short as mine. besides, women with very short hair, cant turn me
on.
Like that also kpkb. Her hair not your hair!
Kid grow up la! 