First of all, I wanna wish you a very Happy New Year.
Your mum's action reflects insecurity and lack of trust in you.
I hope you're within the age group of 12 to 16, that's because when
you're at this age, problems and any developmental corrections can
be done.
Try the following: the following proposed action are mean to
create rapport and trust between a mother and her children
1) If you're going out with friends, tell your mum what time you
will be back. On your part, reach home before on the agreed timing.
If she's worry about you hanging out late, ensure her that you are
with your friends
2) In cases where a fight started, do not fight with her, look
into her eyes. The right thing to do is to stay away from her as
far as possible in the house and remain silient. Should you try to
raise your voice to shoutback or argue, chances are, what i'm
typing is not put to great use.
Such problems, as I mentioned, arises from lack of trust and
insecurity. You will have to ask yourself how defiant are you when
you're with your mum. The trick is to let know that you are
trustable and affirm her with your actions
Beri beri good advice!
And kids should nv hit their parents unless the parents get
physical and start hacking u wif chopper. And esp not if you are a
guy and the parent is a lady. You could cause serious injuries. Mai
fwen punched his cupboard instead of his mum and there's still a
HOLE there. Don't do that k.
