Originally posted by stuffedbears:
its not really a big “problem” compared to what others are
facing, but I would just like to get some sensible advice from
other forumers
I hang out with my bunch of friends and there’s this guy, a
mutual friend of ours. and it just happens that 2 of us share a
common interest in something that is quite obscure and not well
known in SG.
somehow that started a “you two should get together” thing. it
was just a joke my friends started. i dont know how it spread but a
few days later someone actually walked up to me to ask me about it. (I just
changed the topic and quickly ran off. haha. )
What does "it" refers to? as in u
and the other guy get together?
U shld have ur own stand and
opinion... If u do not wish to consider, then simply respond by
"We're just friends" or something like tat...
If u are considering then give an
open ended answer like "maybe, see how" etc...
Any suggestions on how I shld reply to other such
questions in the future?
as above
I think one of the worst thing to do is to lead the other
party on. at the same time it would be presumptuous to “reject” the
situation.. because the guy is probably not interested. and besides
who am i to turn other ppl down?
self reflection required... might
be undue worry as nthing is confirmed...
but, as what many ppl have said before, im still schooling and
studies are definitely on the top of my priorities, especially
since I’m not doing very well :/ sighs.
also, some advice on how I shld act/conduct myself would be good
too.
as per normal... U cant help if
other fall for u... unless u're the type always sending wrong
signal...
I would really like to stay friends, without giving anyone the
wrong impressions.
thanks for bearing with me and
reading this long thing 
Is this an intented pun (with
reference to ur nick)??? 
