People, my mum has many reasons for taking action against my
dad. Besides being lazy and refused to look for job to support the
family, he has always been aggressive towards my mum and sis. He
never talks to us nicely. He has serious attitude problem. No one
can tell him what he did is wrong, he will shout and stomp to his
room and slammed the door. No matter how nice we try talking to
him, it doesnt help. He only want things his way no matter what.
Now that he is jobless and no money, he tends to ask neighbours,
relatives for money. Any amount of money we gave him is never
enough as he wil use it to buy cigarettes, lottery ticket. He will
used up all money fast and ask for more. We had given him so much
money and so many chances to change but he never change. So my mum
go to take action. Tell me, which woman would want to stay in a
marriage with that kinda man?
He has always been mentally abusive. Early this year, he even
tried to hit my sis with 3 different weapons. So bad that he was
arrested and a PPO soon followed. Despite all that, he still in
denial. He thinks he has done nothing wrong. Even after several
counselling sessions and court hearing, he still never change and
was never remorseful. Myself, my mum and my sis are his only hope
for a shelter and food and yet he has the nerve to act like this.
Well, we all dont need to depend on him to survive, its him who
needed us.
In my whole 30 years of my life, he has never been a good father
or even carry out his duties as a man, a husband & a father. He
is a real disgrace to all the men. So much for all the enduring we
had gone through, wasnt worth at all.
There is no need to justify yourself to some of these ignorant
forumers here. Most of them are just teenagers pretending to be
adults here.
We all know there are good fathers and there are bad
fathers.
Good fathers derserve all our respects , bad fathers always die
a lonely death.
Your father is simply a human parasite . These
kind of people know no shame at all.They will continue leeching off
whoever lets him do so.
Enable his behavior no more.
Protect your mother and sis from that scum.