Everyone like to ask, why like this, why like that, why it
happen to me or how come it turn up like this etc etc etc...then
many go into saddness and depression when things do not work out
and keep asking question on why, how etc etc.
One thing for sure, as an Angel, let me spread the truth of life
in your human nature, life is not make to be perfect, human are not
make to be perfect, they are born to make mistake and from mistake,
improve on it to seek perfection, by seeking perfection, it does no
imply perfect. The world knows, perfectionist died early, because
once human reach perfection, this human world will cease to exist.
Does not mean if you are a PhD, you are a perfect person, or that
you are a priest, you are prefect, these are all merely searching
for perfection which most cannot do it in their whole life.
In understanding the above on life and perfection analogy, i
hope TS can understand and better enlightened to answer his or her
own question. Mistake is what human race to strive on, the forever
searching and learning and changing is what churn the human mind
and race. If everyone of us reach a perfection state, all get Phd,
all behave very well, this world will cease to end. Make failures a
part of your life, recognise it as a way to improve or change
rather than keep asking why this and that, which by 80yo, u also
cannot find the answer.