I have this problem.
"The girls whom I like, always stay far away from me. However,
the girls whom I don't like, like to stay close to me".
Here is the start of my problem. I started to have feelings for
this girl, A. Miss A gives me the hot and cold treatment. She
sometimes, want me to go out with her. When she calls me out, I am
either sick, busy or out of the country. When I call her, she is
always busy or having meetings.
I am tired of Miss A's hot and cold treatment. Then during one
time when Miss A ask me to come out with her friends, she didn't
turn up. Instead, Miss B, turns up.
Miss B seem to show an interest in me. She always ask me to
accompany her back home and want me to take her around. I have
nothing against Miss B, she is a nice person. I like Miss B to be
friends. However, I have known Miss B for 2 years, I have thought a
lot about it, I just don't have anything in common with Miss B.
Furthermore, I have no feelings for Miss B, no chemistry. I only
like to be friends with Miss B. I have given all the opportunity to
go out with Miss B but I still don't have any feelings for her.
The problem is how to shake Miss B off, without being rude to
her? Should I wait until she confesses her feelings for me, then I
let her know that we are just friends?
I am tired of these games. It seems everytime I like somebody,
she would stay far away from me, and the person that I am not
interested in, always want to be with me.
I am just tired, I have nothing in common with Miss B. I like to
go play board games like Catan, etc. I tried to take Miss B to play
board games, but she is not interested. Miss B is interested in
kids, she keeps on talking to me about her students (she is a
teacher), but I am just not so keen. However Miss B is a nice
person, I like her kindness and caring personality, its just that I
have no feelings for her except as friends !
Please HELP ME, ADVICE ? I don't want to offend Miss B nor do I
want to lose her as a friend. However, I am tired of not being able
to get Miss A's attention.
me thinks u are damn boring!why would a girl who goes out with u
end up talkin bout kids in her school?dont folks go out normally
talk about the karma sutra and where they need to ssee n go b4 the
week day starts?dont they have any exciting stuff in spore?/like
the science centre?shopping centres...?casinos???marine square?sim
lim square?china town?even take a cruise ride to nowhere at the
world trade centre is probably more fun!
question is.........are u on some type of drugs?u depresssed?run
out of ideas?how do u werk n think in this manner u exhibit
here?