Before I start, please don't flame me or provide useless advice,
I am all for ears and I am ready to take your feedbacks and advice.
My story starts like this:
I am in this circle of friends. In this group, there are two
girls, Miss A and Miss B. I have a bit of attraction to Miss A but
Miss A is a bit irritating. I have no attraction towards Miss B,
although Miss B is a nice person.
Miss A always like to make me jealous. Like she always like to
leave with other guys and do it in front of me. Sometimes, she even
gang up with the friends, to tease her about this guy or that guy,
to make me feel jealous. Is Miss A signaling me to go after
her?
However, I am afraid that Miss A maybe diverting me to Miss B.
Because each time I attend the friend gathering, Miss A is always
not around and MisS B is around. Miss B has been showing me a lot
of attention lately, texting me and facebooking me, even sitting
next to me in classes.
My heart got the suspicion that Miss A maybe looking to lure me
and then reject me so that Miss B can make her move on me. I don't
know but I feel suspicious. That day when we group of friends
organise a birthday gathering, my birthday, everyone turned up,
especially Miss B but Miss A went AWOL. So I suppose Miss A don't
like me after all?
Me and Miss A always make jokes and have fun. So one day
MissA decided to play the jealous game at me by getting one of
her guy friends to always stick to her and then the guy friend
would say that he went out movies with Miss A for me to hear. Is
this a ploy to get me jealous? So I complain this to one of my
senior friends, he then told Miss A not to do this inconsiderate
behaviour. Miss A and the guy friend then grew distant, the guy
friend even went to apologise to me. But then, now Miss A has
gotten another guy to tag along and take her back home, he is from
another class. Miss A that night, pretended to be drunk by drinking
a lot of red wine and then got this guy to come over and announce
that she needs to follow him back.
So what is the prognosis? I suspect Miss A is trying to lure me
to Miss B. Is this a diversionary tactic?
Grow some balls.
Tell Miss B you are not interested in her being your romantic
partner. Since she is not the one you want.. it's best to leave her
alone so she may go find someone who can appreciate her.
Miss A is not interested in you as a romantic partner.
You can't have the one you love.. and the one you don't love
wants you.
Please expand your social circle.
It is quite pathetic if you choose B because you can't have
A.
Surely there's Miss C, D, E, F, G - Z out there...
"Its so sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes
along".- England Dan and Jon Coley.
