Maid Abuse At Home

Rooney9 SG

Looney, can you don't be so gay ?

but you are parn in disguise what.

you and her pattern very similar, so parn is you and you is parn. but now no parn now is jojobeach = parn

alize SG

Your mother will never listen to you.. because you are her daughter.. you must know your rightful place.

A scornful person can only be disciplined by an authoritative figure. You are not the one to lecture her of life.

Are you a disciple of George Yeo, who said

“Remember your place in society before you engage in political debate…

Debate cannot generate into a free-for-all, where no distinction is made between the senior and junior party…

You must make distinctions – What is high, what is low, what is above, what is below,

and then within this, we can have a debate, we can have a discussion…

people should not take on those in authority as ‘equals” "

KonkeyDong SG

A psychologist onces said.. we are all.. more or less .. crazy. Key words.. "More" or "Less". Don't ask me who.. I heard this on my radio during the drive to work.

To solve this very simple family problem, you took the complicated route.. one that is bound to destroy the family you "claim" you want to keep in harmony. Naturally, people will wonder about your intellect.

Simple solution to a simple problem. Stop hiring full time maid.

Your mother will never listen to you.. because you are her daughter.. you must know your rightful place.

A scornful person can only be disciplined by an authoritative figure. You are not the one to lecture her of life.

A cat for your mother ? A cat/pet is a burden for one who so desire freedom. She hasn't got rid of you yet.. now you brought another. Or is this but another of your self-serving act ?

Hence. I allow the law to handle it.

Your children are not your children. Khalil Gibran.

If she so desires freedom, then she should not have committed herself to things she cannot handle. Destruction is short-term. I will not allow the family to implode this way. There is already dissent. Anyhow. Good to know you have a job.

KonkeyDong SG

What is the simple route, then.

You want me to watch people die again. Dad died from a heart attack after arguing with her. Not gonna happen as long as I'm alive.

My place in the family is by respect. BTW, the cat was what she wanted in the first place.

KonkeyDong SG

Are you a disciple of George Yeo, who said

“Remember your place in society before you engage in political debate…

Debate cannot generate into a free-for-all, where no distinction is made between the senior and junior party…

You must make distinctions – What is high, what is low, what is above, what is below,

and then within this, we can have a debate, we can have a discussion…

people should not take on those in authority as ‘equals” "

Well said, Alize.

jojobeach SG

Are you a disciple of George Yeo, who said

“Remember your place in society before you engage in political debate…

Debate cannot generate into a free-for-all, where no distinction is made between the senior and junior party…

You must make distinctions – What is high, what is low, what is above, what is below,

and then within this, we can have a debate, we can have a discussion…

people should not take on those in authority as ‘equals” "

George Yeo ? Who is he ? Your father ? I don't know him.. but maybe he knows me.

Yah.. if everyone is equal.. then what is authority ?

Authority means got special power. Understand ?

Your father and mother got special authority over you... if not they will be the one calling you Lao Peh/Lao Bu ( father/mother).

Now you can call me mother.. I buy you some flower.. OK ? Good.

jojobeach SG

What is the simple route, then.

You want me to watch people die again. Dad died from a heart attack after arguing with her. Not gonna happen as long as I'm alive.

My place in the family is by respect. BTW, the cat was what she wanted in the first place.

As long as no maid needs to come work for your mom.. there will be no funeral.

KonkeyDong SG

I'm fine not having one. I've already emphasized that millions of times. If she so chooses, I can't defy. She insists on having one. I suggested one that comes in the day and leaves at night. Or once or twice a week. If she really wants to hire help THAT bad. I can do my own laundry and stuff anyway.

KonkeyDong SG

George Yeo ? Who is he ? Your father ? I don't know him.. but maybe he knows me.

Yah.. if everyone is equal.. then what is authority ?

Authority means got special power. Understand ?

Your father and mother got special authority over you... if not they will be the one calling you Lao Peh/Lao Bu ( father/mother).

Now you can call me mother.. I buy you some flower.. OK ? Good.

Authority exists. But not everyone is equipped to handle it. Stalin/Hitler/Pol Pot?

jojobeach SG

So are you doing your own laundry and stuff all along ? or you are going to ?

Were you there when your father had a heart attack .. during the argument with your mother ?

So you blame your mother for the death of your father ?

Hitler/Stalin/Pol pot are not equipped ? LOL.. no they are masters in manipulating that power. All they need to do is give a "command".. and his dirty deeds are done.. without him lifting a finger, make victims shake and shiver.

Power is nothing without control . they are able to move millions. How can they not be equipped ?

jojobeach SG

Even more true if the whole phrase is presented :

ch'hiah tsa-bor, tso ho bor, au-bue mae i si lau-hor

赤查某，做好某，后面骂她死老虎

Boh leh.. don't anyhow say ok.. They give their wife botox , boob job face lift money.. turn them into real life Barbie dolls.

Only suah koo people like you believe that kind of saying lah.

Your wife ugly.. so you curse her every time you go drink kopi.

Issit ? Must be lah.

WayneKwek SG

I can see some intense argument here. I just wish to add some comments. First of all Konkeykong, I sympathised with your situation. I can read and try to understand your predicament, but I am afterall not in your shoes. Although I believe that blood is thicker than water, and no matter what kind of situation, you are part of your mother and should never bring her to any kind of discomfort. By reporting her, her life could be worse you know? But that said, I cannot feel what you feel, so my comments are just for reference. I hope everything will turn out fine.

About Konkeykong and Jojobeach...I feel very vex. I dunno why people quarrel. But I formly believe that the fault lies in the person who throw the first punch. Maybe that person is not sensitive enough to know that it hurts, and when retaliated, feels offended and thus thinks that he is not at fault. So maybe you gals can track back to page 1 and see whose comments were packed with spiked durians?

A person without ego will be without temper. Peace..peace...

angel7030 SG

My take here is, if you want to post, prepare to accept all kinds of critics, even rubbish sometime also can find a good chip, you come into aunt agony with an agony problem, post it out and want feedback and advices, just ignore those you think irrelevant and take those you think are good advices, but if you end up getting more problem and agony here than your actual agony mother and maid problem, then I dunno why you are here. Be open if you want yr story to go public, if not can keep it to yourself inside a small cubicle toilet and slowly think abou it, that is what my uncle hitman does, consult him, he is a trained poster, you never see he gets angry or frustrated no matter how badly he is treated here.

Within my sista Jojo posting, there are good advices too, take it or leave it, dun hv to argue over it, dun you think yr own maid and mother problem is more important? But at the end of the day, it is still your bloody damn problem.

KonkeyDong SG

So are you doing your own laundry and stuff all along ? or you are going to ?

Were you there when your father had a heart attack .. during the argument with your mother ?

So you blame your mother for the death of your father ?

Power is nothing without control . they are able to move millions. How can they not be equipped ?

Yes to first point. He left for a jog after the argument. Then collapsed shortly after. He looked pretty fucking stressed. I clean the house also. Not just my own stuff. But it's important to clean the house because I have skin allergies so I'm pretty red all the time.

Agree with that regarding Hitler etc. But at the end of the day, many people died and they still got owned. And it doesn't mean it will be respected also. I suppose it's the unfortunate existence of free will in each person. People will burn with the choices they make in life. I can personally respect their abilities to commandeer, but at the end of the day it doesn't justify the suffering of their victims. The germans got owned anyway at the end of the day so to me their manipulation was just stalling what could only have been a natural downfall.

KonkeyDong SG

Didn't say there was bad advice. If there was pure trolling I wouldn't entertain it. Don't be another one. Though I can see the resemblance.

KonkeyDong SG

A person without ego will be without temper. Peace..peace...

Thank you Wayne. I appreciated it. I probably got carried away. Just slightly stressed nowadays. Thank you for reminding me. =)

KonkeyDong SG

Boh leh.. don't anyhow say ok.. They give their wife botox , boob job face lift money.. turn them into real life Barbie dolls.

Only suah koo people like you believe that kind of saying lah.

Your wife ugly.. so you curse her every time you go drink kopi.

Issit ? Must be lah.

Hey Jojo...cool it alright....newspaper recently report tai tai's don't tell their husbands and pay the surgeon in cash. Aiya it's a fucked up world really. But aggression won't make things better, know.

KonkeyDong SG

But it doesn't mean I don't appreciate u stepping in to share your point of view. My retaliation towards jojo is not to her but her posts. I have no doubt everyone here is capable of being nice at some point. No sarcasm intended truly. Posts by people do flare their personality but I may be wrong. No faith lost. Thanks for sharing anyway.

Rooney9 SG

do you blame your mom for your dad heart attack? this is important. it may hold the clue as to whether you resented her subconsciously.

mancha SG

What Angle is telling you is right, take what is relevant, and ignore those that are off the mark.

As for the derisive attacks against you, bear in mind that such attacks are always by persons who are unhappy with themselves in the first place.

They spread what is within themselves.

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