Caught father-inlaw masterbating

last SG · 2011-09-22T10:16:22+00:00

Elder Care center. I guess you are full time housewife, correct me if I am wrong.Both my parents are working full time, and we decided to enrol my grandmoth...

Bio-Hawk SG

Hey 'cool' guys, please dun regard pl above 65 (or more) like some kinda aliens. The comments and replies posted sure make you guys look like a bunch of asses who think 'old' folks are walking around DEAD? Dun you asses realise an elder person also has needs and wants as well as the occasional human sexual urges? Or is it reserved for 'cool' asses like you only. Is masturbation only for folks who are 'cool' like you only? Even tho some of you 'cool' guys may be married do you think one of these days when you become of the age of yr FIL's you will have ZERO sexual feelings ? PLEEEEEEEZE asses! As long as yr FIL dus not masturbate or do it looking at you or in plain view of the rest of the family pleeeeeese... Shut the f**k up n get a life. Guess you may be fantasizing abt him huh?

+1; Exactly. As I said before she is a narcissist.

angel7030 SG

yo, I aint a guy, me a cool gal.

Fcukpap SG

u say u r mentally disturbed...and if that happens again...what should u do? this could drive u crazy....hence, address it..else, there would be no end....

i believe your hubby will understand ... but not to disrupt family relationships...u should address it discreetly...strange, what about your mother in law? doesn't she know?

the least u could do now is not to wear anything revealing...and try to get out of the house when both of you are alone....

angel7030 SG

Well, let the old man do what he wants, as long as it dun go public, it should be ok, afterall, how many years is left for him, just keep quiet and move on lah. Who knows, maybe when you are old and no man like you, you also hv to do the same, then your Son in laws saw what you did./////,,,...........

likeyou SG

If he can walks, then bring him to joo chiat or geyland lor, if cannot, then book on call, they will surely charge more, serving old men is certainly much easier than strong young men.

Address plse and of course the phone number too.

angel7030 SG

huh? you also want to be like her FIL??

likeyou SG

huh? you also want to be like her FIL??

I want to help all the old people to fulfil their horny urge.

angel7030 SG

if horny, just go down and horn your car, why need to call us?

Veggie Bao SG

What I find to be the most disturbing is the fact that he seem to peep at you or leer at you when you are at the kitchen.

That means that there is a chance that he might have some sexual thoughts or sexual fantasy about you.

This means it is rather unsafe for you to stay together with him.

Regarding masturbating.......I have no comment because in a way it is one's own personal habit and one's own individual business.

But leering at you, is, something that is affecting you and is no longer a personal issue.

To me I think it is unacceptable if he has done that, because he has failed to control himself and respect you as a new family member, and it is taboo and forbidden to do that because it can be considered as incest, it is something that is crossing the line. If he takes you as daugther-in-law, he should have 0 sexual thoughts whatsoever.

So for your case I would be more concerned about your safety and security.

I think you must find a way to live on your own.

You can think about this and find a strategy to talk to your husband. I am not sure whether you should be open with him and tell him 100% or whether you should find some other excuse. The choice is yours. But if I am you I would definitely start thinking and pushing in that direction.

mancha SG

He been seen twice doing it.

Now he will be checking out the flat to see if it is safe to wank.

Double check.

DIL should fix a latch inside the door of the FIL's room, and tell him to secure the door first before indulging, and keep the groans down.

likeyou SG

or move out?

angel7030 SG

or move in with him

Llg2178 SG

You are in a difficult situation. You want your father-in-law to put a stop to such behaviour but you are at a lost on how to bring this message across without hurting his feeling.

I would suggest that you share your encounter with your hubby. Your father-in-law may be suffering from some forms of mental illness. Perhaps he should seek help from psychiatrist. Because it is not normal for a sane adult to have such behaviour. More so towards his daughter-in-law.

Wishing you good luck and good health. Smile

mancha SG

Its normal lah, just that he is noisy about it and nosey about her. The DIL is a normal person with healthy desire, even for a man of his age. I think especially a man of his age. He still has wild oats to sow, but no field. Two thousand years ago, there was no problem for such elderly men. Now with modern advancement , the poor fellow has to wank.

Aneslayer SG

She is just a sympathy whore.

Yeah... I can say the same to you too....

The fil needs some activities to keep his mind from fantasizing. His sexual energy can turn nasty. Proper channelling would do more good.

troublemaker2005 SG

time to move out

Dalforce 25 SG

I caught two dogs mating under my block yesterday.

Fcukpap SG

mai tu liao....address it than grope about it day in night out....

purpleXXXXX SG

Why don't you just adjust your thinking? Please be more open-minded. You mean when you're old you cannot masturbate? And when you have children, husband and wife cannot have sex? It is only because you are so narrow-minded that you find such things digusting. have you ever put yourself in the shoes of your FIL , what if he was the son-in-law and you were caught masturbating. If you move out , it will only hurt his feelings. He is old and he needs care and company. Why don't you just be more open-minded and accept that everyone has needs.

dragg SG

she mentioned he was loud. its ok to masturbate but only in privacy. you dont masturbate and moaned so loud your whole family know you are doing it right?

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