See, I am stucked somewhat between my love life and my career
and my family… I am attached already but recently got some girls
keep sending me mushy stuff and I accepted one of them as my gf (so
now I become two timer – but no physical and don’t intend to – and
yah she’s pretty since got other guys after her)
Problem is my career still sucky (haven’t reach my goals yet so
r/s is a distraction, not to mention having more than 1 r/s is a
disaster especially if someone found out)... Then I need to take
care of my family, spend time with them… and then my other gf… I
scared I will end up hurting somebody but I keep telling them to go
for other guys if they want (even to my gf of coz i genna scolded
by her)
Personally I just want to lock up myself and don’t go out and
then concentrate on doing my work – yes i am workaholic and that
compounded problems since i am more interested in work than girls
at the moment… once i reach my goals than i would go into r/s
otherwise no peace because i can go dating and for example have
more than 10 calls from clients… i feel better in r/s when nobody
disturb… and no i cannot stop clients from contacting me since it’s
a family biz and i dun wanna destroy the reputation.
i want to break up but also don’t want to hurt them and want to
remain platonic friends. Any idea how to ask them to be just
friends? And no, I never have sex with them and seriously I don’t
intend to. Last time even in a room with naked girl but i also
never have sex … it sounds gay for a guy to turn down sex, but
whatever…
If it was you, will you choose family? career? r/s? Assuming
your family wasn’t nice to you before, so it wasn’t a close family,
just a normal type of family with quarrels and stuff. Obviously if
it’s a close family, i will choose family first… but since not
close, then it’s a close call between the 3…
