Aiyo bro, this is page 5, ppl in page 1 or 2 already ask me this.
You can read in front ma, I dun like to reply repeated ques la.
But just for yr sake, of course have got ex-gf before la. Wah
lau eh .. at this age no gf before I zek tao become a laughing
stock from jb til batam liao.
Yet thats not the point mah. 都说是 ex gf le. Already over le, now
no gf, then is the sad part leh.
Darkness, tagged.com? I am also a member there leh, but i
thought a lot of the ladies that post there are fake ones. How did
u manage to date a few out? Give a few pointers leh.
I am also a member of this match.com. Everyday send me this
'your matches today' email one. Damn frustrating. But there are a
lot of pictures of local girls inside. I cant really determine if
this site is genuine anot because need to pay money one. I dont
want i subscribe and pay $ liao the thing turns out to be a dud, i
will really sian 1/2.
I teach you one skill lah.
Those ladies with above 350+ friends, you can delete off them
liao. Chance of dating them out is near impossible. You might have
seen people with 1000+ friends? those anyone add one lah~ =.=""
Those that I date out ones are shy ones with less than 150
friends. Those are the real human beings. :) Send them a message to
intro yourself to them. Best if you be genuine (tell them as much
about you, show them that you're really want to make friends). If
you want love, you will need to become their friend. If you want to
become their friend, you need to show them genuinely that you're
willing to make friends.
Constant communication. Once you've found those girls with less
than 150 friends, the next time is to create a regular
communication. When the girl feels comfortable abour you, she'll
give you her number. SMS and MSN is good, but I personally prefer
SMS. From there, keep texting her regularly for two weeks before
further developing. After all, there's no harm having lunch with a
girl and getting to know your friend.
Don't pester them because they might not feel comfortable going
out with "stranger online friends". Do you best in grooming and act
natural. Smile!!! If first lunch date is successful, then make a
second date. Relationship this kind of thing must have
feelings de. Best is ask her after the third/fourth date. See if
she have feelings for you or not. <3
The rest next time I continue type~ 
I don't use
match.com.
Another one that is local dating website I use is lovestruck.com
(finding who's having lunch nearby, and arrange a lunch
date/meeting with them). Personally I feel that the subscription is
quite expensive, but the people there are all genuine. So I am
recommending you lovestruck for the genuine people. 
