Hi
My gf and i have been together for quite awhile. Recently we had a
tiff when she said she was intending to go Malaysia during the
weekend with a guy friend of hers. They have been close platonic
friends for many years so her perspective is that it is merely
hanging out with a friend. I reason that it beyond what i can
accept as a social norm as i was brought up with a traditionally
conservative mindset.
She is trustworthy and what she reasoned is logical and
comprehensible. However, understanding it is easy but accepting is
difficult. Hence my question is:
Firstly, is anyone able to rationalise my point of concern so that
i can better convey my view for her understanding. She is a
rational person and if I am able to justify my concern to her
instead of me stating this is social norm thingy, it would be much
better.
Secondly, any suggestions as to how this can be resolved/moved
forward?
Grow a backbone first.
Then tell her NO means NO.
She wants to go.. then tell her to fuck off with that guy
lor.
