This is what is inside my mind, i am afraid he is seeing me as a
younger sister.
But during the outing their is a even younger girl beside me, but i
didn't see him attending to her as far as i have notice from this
few outing. And he doesn't know much about my past failed
relationship as i did not disclose. I don't want to disclose
too much to someone whom i am not that close to as of now.
Kinda agree a female who lost a relationship will be at her
weakness point in life and the more i need 3rd party to analyse
this issue for me. To prevent myself from misunderstood
his intention.
Well, you are old enough to think for yourself and since you had
a few relationships before, you should be experienced enough to
know what constitutes a hint and what does not.
What is the need of disclosing your past relationships anyway?
Unless he is wooing you already and you are willing to tell him,
there is no requirement or obligation of you to tell him.
Treating one girl nicer than another doesnt necessarily relate
to age nor does it really mean any romantic. I can treat one
classmate, one female friend or colleague better than another
merely because i feel i am more at ease, and comfortable with her,
thats all. You could be thinking too much.
How well do you know this guy anyway? Is he even attached? I
guess these are some things you have to make sure of before you
even think of anything else.
Besides, you are a girl, you should know to drop hints to a guy.
Like ask him out for a date or a meal. This is already 2011. Its
nothing wrong with a girl making the first move these days. Dont
sit there and wait for things to happen. Things wont just drop from
the sky if you dont do anything.