am i too vain for a guy?

rouko SG

i’m in my early 20’s a student working part time. i splurge a lot of money on clothes and skin care products every month basically most of my salary goes there. i went through a period thinking i was bisexual but now, i’m very sure that i’m straight. i had several gf’s in the past but most of they are not supportive of what i do, my spending habits although i still spend lavishly on them.

i used to keep a jap style haircut which need to be styled by wax. now it’s quite long and i regularly spend on coloring, hair treatments. i also spent a few k’s removing my deep eyebags. as for my face, i would not say it’s flawless but i spend a great deal of time maintaining it as i have a morning, afternoon and night routine. i use many skin care products including pore minimizers, concealer, bb creams and some others. so normally i will take more than an hour to get ready to go out, this makes some of my ex’s very pissed.

i was a model in the past but due to parent’s objections i had to quit and find other jobs. i am often admired by many girls but unsure if they fancy a kind of guy like me to be their bf.

FireIce SG

normal.

just dun start wearing stockings and miniskirt.

Loor SG

Do what u want to do...but u can't please everyone. Long hair, short hair, handbags, face cream, makeup...whatever - some people will like, some people not. If u r happy and can be around others that agree, then that's what's important.

Compromise where u think u need to, but maintain your individuality and happiness.

angel7030 SG

Make it simple, just use one product, like me SK III can liao, just go watson have already, so not much headache, and try not to do much on your hair, later you may get premature baldness, especially for pple of your type.

One thing you can do is break all the mirror in yr house, then slowly you will become a perfect macho man.

Loor SG

perfect macho man........but with alot of bad luck! ;)

Jiani SG

normal lah. a guy in my cca also do that

rouko SG

do they have such thing as sk iii? i am not a cross dresser in any way but i tend to wear clothes that are more feminine like cardigans, skinny jeans etc. i’m not tall but quite well built and have a six pack abs. about my hair it is almost like my life and i take pride in maintaining and upkeeping it very well. i also have few piercings on both my ears and other places but i think it is quite common nowadays.

FireIce SG

neat and groomed is good.

not everyone is suited for the rugged look.
unless u have johnny depp face

angel7030 SG

Got, thru the net, you can order from Japan, SK II is mend only for singapore tropical areas, whereas SK III is for colder places.

Wearing skinny jean, you need to hv long legs and nice lift up butts, some gals short short with big butt wear already looks orbid, like mother chicken going around. Grooming is a personal issue, it is good to keep up, stay good and feel good, unlike some guys, never wash their face or care for their skin, so end up with lots of problem, from dementis to hair loss problem, to oily and pimpled face.

Piercing is normal lah, me olso got belly here and there..

Fugazzi SG

In that very question is the answer lah, needless to say, u are vain!
The degree of vanity, no such thing, of course, considering the age, it is alrite as long as it does not encroach on another or diminish another rite to be

iwannabehappy SG

normal, i've vain too, although maybe not until 1 hour to get ready. All you need is a girlfriend that takes 2 hours to get ready, then she can't possibly be pissed at you.

angel7030 SG

Your vainity shall increase as you grow older and older, by then, looking at a bald head of your infront of yr mirror, you might hv to decide to jump or to cut or to swollow

Shampoodle SG

Whattttt~~ Guys that take good care of their skin and hair are rare, and most of the time they are hot. Lol.

Your ex-girlfriends, what they have a problem with is that you arrive later than them for dates/ they have to wait a long time for you to get ready etc. Punctuality issues.

Girls don't like to wait for guys, they feel that its more normal for the guys to be waiting for them instead.

DailyFreeGames.com SG

i dun find anything wrong for a guy wanting to look good... in fact that's nice... unlike me, work so much until i am bochup about my looks, now i look like johnny depp with the rugged look...

Rock^Star SG

rouko must be the kind of guy whose items take up 90% of the basin's circumference. Come to think of it, I use body soap to wash the face haha.

Rock^Star SG

I think you also belong to the 月光族。到了月底，钱都给花地光光。That's considered lucky because there are others who are 周光族， or even 日光族。

BadzMaro SG

Sounds like my younger bro. Prone to lateness and minus all the splurging on girls…. for now.

lol

angel7030 SG

Guys dolling themselve up is ok, but dun overdo it, same goes to gal, so overdid their face end up looking like a chinese opera singer. Be moderate, natural looks with light skin protection is the best for me.