TS, without your father, you wont be here posting or rather you
wont be in this world. Make peace with your father. Understand him
more.
I do agreed with what you said.
But at this juncture, he is too young to think in that
direction. Thus, my advice is to focus on getting his study
done, and move on. I too, took a long time to realise this
simple truth.
So, Liptonman1993, focus on
making it in life, and not on how to get back your father.
Life is surly more than this. Things are really
beautiful outside. Take time to appreciate it. :)
By the way, I am now on the road trip from Toronto to Prince
Edward Island with my family, why? because I focus on the positive
part, determined not to follow by dad's footstep.
What my dad cannot give me, I will do my best to provide for my
family. That is what you should aim for. If you want to
'beat' your dad, do it in a positive way. :)