Hi all!
There seems to be some problem going on. It is to do with my
father. He keeps saying that my mum is always talking bad things
about him to his colleagues(my parents both work in different
companies). The thing is that I not even sure if my mum did that,
but my father keep suspecting my mother. Any ideas?
You mum is trying to test your Dad whether he
is having a love affair with someone else, and your Dad,
having the affair, is feeling self guilty, get agitated very fast,
that is where your mom can sense it and caught him on the bud
(bed).
Last time, one of my fren's dad also same, got an affair with
PRC gal, then the mom use the method of agitation, she will talk
very secretly and softly to my grandma or my relatives or even me,
that arose her husband suspicion and confronted her directly that
he had an affair and regret about it, what a smart mom, no need to
go find and search, just use the psychology weakness of men's mind
already can pressure him to give up.