The longer the time lapse, the greater the notion that you have
been scammed.
You never know until it is certain that you will never get your
money back as promised.
Remember on your part, considering the information received
at the time, you did the good deed.
On the woman's part, we can only speculate as to the quality of
her actions.
On hind sight, you did not trust your instincts, and could have
handled the situation better. Next time.
In time, the money is nothing much, only rememberance.
I still remember my 13th month bonus, pro rata of $380
taken by my friend, donkey years ago. Still have not pay back,
remember but can't be bothered. No big deal.