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last SG · 2011-06-04T10:52:58+00:00

TS, god dammit, you are bloody 16 years old only. You are still a MINOR for god's sake. Theres plenty of time for you to get a girlfriend. If you lamenting a...

iTrololol SG

hey everyone, Im 16, male, 1.63m tall. most of my friends are/were in relationship before except me. well, that made me feel that a guy like me who is this tall will never get a girl. the truth? I kinda like a girl who is taller that me. I mean shes like 1.7m – 1.76m, around there. furthermore, I dont even have the looks too. #fml \(T- T \)

DRC SG

have you asked her?

iTrololol SG

sadly no… we seldom chat online. (as a friend)
but in real life, when I see that girl, I just dont have that confidence to approach and talk/ask her. ಥ_ಥ
Im so pathetic.

DRC SG

Bro

1) you are NOT pathetic, you just do not know how to tackle a gal yet.

2) try this ask her out in a group, e.g. movies, dinner. get to know her better as a friend.

3) Instead of approaching her as someone that likes her, try to approach her as a friend.

iTrololol SG

if I only have the CONFIDENCE in myself…
but hey, thanks for trying to help me out.

DRC SG

confidence is bulit up thru time and willingness to take a chance.

DRC SG

you got nothing to lose by trying.

If you do not try then you will never know,

iTrololol SG

yeah, you’re absolutely right. if I dont try, I will never know.

likeyou SG

Not to pour cold water on you TS.

Normally or rather majority of lady prefer guy taller than them.

Demon Bane SG

That's not a problem....does she mind you are shorter than her ?

iTrololol SG

I dont know… maybe like what @likeyou said, lady prefer guy taller than them.

likeyou SG

Sorry again to pour ice water on TS.

I am just speaking from my heart.

Ladies will feel inferior when their bf is shorter. And ladies tend to be authority over their bf. Their bf will thus be their pet. Listen to her command.

Sorry ya.

Demon Bane SG

I dont know… maybe like what @likeyou said, lady prefer guy taller than them.

This is generally the case....why not you ask her directly?

likeyou SG

This is generally the case....why not you ask her directly?

Yes, but must be prepare for the worst result.

DRC SG

My question for TS is it true that all short men out there will never get married?

Why must there always be about your negative points?

You got other good points too, be brave and show it to her.

If a person is always scare of failure, he or she will not learn to how sweet success is after going so much to obtain it.

Demon Bane SG

Ask her directly is better than any day-dreaming....if rejected then go for another gal lor...dun waste time pondering....direct action is the key....

iTrololol SG

@likeyou thats ok, that make sense. hmm… asking her directly? ... gosh, I dont know man.

Demon Bane SG

@likeyou thats ok, that make sense. hmm… asking her directly? ... gosh, I dont know man.

Be brave and ask her directly....be prepared for a rejection....but that's a part of growing up.... or maybe she will accept you leh?

DRC SG

To TS

lets do a test

how would you react if a gal friend of yours came up to you and say she likes you?

Shocked?

DRC SG

the key point is to know her more.

Let her know you more ..

Going out with her in a group.

observe her.. understand her.,. know her friends.

A key point is to know her friends and treat them well

if you can get their support, then half the battle is won.