I had few times, argue with her, asking her not to interfere our
private lifes, she will tell her neighbour friends, how bad I treat
her, adding this N that too.
We are trying to control our private life to the minimum, as you
know, some old flats, no sound proof.
I accept her all the while but she dont accept me, how then
?
I already do what I should do as daughter inlaw, but she still dont
accept me as part of the family, how then ?
Both of us got think, send her to old folks home, what you all
think ?
You are entrenced in the power struggle all married women fear
and try hard to avoid.
I suggest you take a break from this family life. Let your
husband know you need some time to yourself. Be away from the house
for a few days.
Your mother-in law and your husband need to reflect on their own
doings too.
Her behavior is nothing but selfish and destructive to her son's
marriage.
Your husband's refusal to address the problem is enabling your
mother-in law's intrusive behavior.
If she truly wants her son to be happily married, she will need
to back off.
