Tho I am a gal, i give you a frank opinon on this from a gal
perspectives, quite bias for you to just ask guy, if I am the mod,
i would had banned and lock up this thread.
The same question gal frens of mine who asked me, money or love?
My reply is, of course it is the best to have the best of both
world, but then somehow, one would outweight the other. So, if you,
as a guy, asked me career or love, if I am a materialistic
gal, i will said career, love can come later, cos money outweight
love, with money then we can have love, so go ahead and makes tons
of money, we can meet once a week, no problem, just remember to
share the earning.
But if I am a homemake or rich enuf gal myself, I would tell
you, Love, cos Love can hardly come, let fall and make love, career
can built up later, it is not that we are short of money, relax and
enjoy life rather than slave for money and career.