if cannot then try argue with your grand dad lor...anyway, stop
argueing with them lah, like me, my dad also dun bother much one,
you argue, he will just say, shut up lah angel, so I changed my
tactics, whenever i to my dad, I give him the solution first, talk
nicely, somehow it works, he begin to see that I am begining to
talk senses, like when i want to change my car, i told him that COE
is rising, calculated the estimate cost if he do not renew a new
car for me, when he sees the logics and facts, he agreed. He even
praised me for making a smart move.
So, you see, all these middle ages Uncles and daddies need
respect, dignity and pride, you praise them, support them, talk to
them base on facts and figures like in boardroom, they will
appreciate and better understand you ya