if a person keeps wanting you to change, is it considered true
love? unconditional love?
Depends.
Is it for your own good or for his/her own good ?
If ask you to stop the vices, ofcors it's because they care
about you lah.
But if ask you to change your character to suit them, then
ofcors it's for their own selfish reason lah.
There is no such thing as unconditional love between a
couple.
Blinded by love does not equal unconditional love.
The only unconditional love is from a child to parent. Or a
parent to child. However, there are also selfish children and/or
selfish parents practising conditional love lah.
From young, our parents keep telling us we should find someone
who loves us unconditionally. The reality is, only your parents
is/are capable of such love to you...
Go and ask your parents , they themselves cannot even practise
unconditional love to their own spouse, YET they ask you to seek a
unicorn for a mate.
