How?!?

ChoCoChips SG

hong gan la simi abcdefg

n ur story sibeh sibeh long sia

cant b bothered to read so

just choose the one with the biggest boobs la

MenArePigs SG

DRC,

I just spoke to (F), and I ask her what she actually mean by husband material, she say woman like to be taken care of. Then I ask her if she had this type of preference then why even consider me?! Since I only doing NS now? She said I still young, after NS still have to go Uni, and then after that can come and look for her. I told her she sounded like she want to break up with me.

She sad no. She just telling me how she feel. I told her if she want to break up with me, then break up lah, she said she can see us as puppy love bf gf only, but if got major important things to decide, I might not be ready.

I told her that she very mean to see me this way, that doesn't mean i'm in NS now that I have no future. She said that NS will hold back time and obligation for her and only have tiome on weekends, ask me to go look for (K) instead. She suits me.

I ask her what she mean by that? She said, (K) looks like the dao er lang tang type, happy go lucky no future, just happy can already.

Wtf?! so I am like that meh?! Fk I told her that I very dissapointed in her mindset and that she thinks i'm like the same type as (K). I told (F) that you only look on the outside but never look into the inside of a person.

I can't believe (F) has this type of agenda.

The more I think about it the more stupid I feel. If (F) really mean what she say, then I think it's really stupid of her to think that way. fk! Why?!?!

fk it ..i'm just going to going cheong tonite ..thanks for listening.

gunner77 SG

You should go for K.

she was there for you when you are lonely in camp.

just for that, she deserve more than F.

kengkia SG

every sat F and every sun K, best of both worlds.

the thing is if u not sure which is the one for you, you should got out with each of them in equal frequency .

Saying goes, distance will enable you to know the true power of the horses, knowing the person long enough will enable you to know whether the person is suits you or not.

Disman SG

got $ got fcuk from many different gals/ can makan many different cusine understand

got $ gals q from bedok head until jurong tail

Huang Pin Yuan 黃品源 - 那麽愛妳爲什麽 with Karen Mok

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UfObV7T6K8w

Disman SG

R at least drive a car

he can buy new designer clothing handbags shoes for F

he earn many money now

but in future nobody only GOD (JESUS) know

u still have a bright future

don't despair give up

u can find a good gals in future

all the best to u

Disman SG

hope u will in future will get a gals whom really looked at your talents

gals love

1 handsome

2 sweet talk/honey word

3 rich

4 talented

5 humouous

6 knowledgeable

man

afterall who want to suffer with u

Disman SG

I've been going out with this girl (F) and she likes me too, so anyways on the day she decided to to be my gf was also the day my NS buddy was to celebrate his birthday at butterfactory.

I send (F) home and then met up with my fren (A) inside Butterfactory. Everything was going fine, everyone was partying and drinking until (A)'s younger sister (K) came and made out with me on the dance floor. I guess we were both drunk but then she took away my phone and went to the ladies toilet and started alling up somebody on my phone. Turns out that she called (F) to tell her that she is with me and having fun.

I snatched the phone back from (F) and talk to (F) but I think she got really pissed and cut the conversation. So angrily ask (K) why she's doing this, and she said that she already like me and doesn't want anyone else to have me. I got confused and ask her her how she know about my gf, and then (K) explained that her brother (A) had told her about my relatioship with (F) and that she (K) had secretly known me for quite some time.

She revealed that she was the secret phone pal who message me doing my days in NS, and that her brother (A) her given her my number.

I was shock. I recall that during those lonly days in camp, this secret phone pal (K) would chat with me during my duty and that our convesations were always fun and cheeky.

So now, I have a problem. (K) said she will try everything in her hands to stop (F) from getting back to me, and that (K) want's to be a clubbing girlfriend to me. SO how? Should I try and patch back with (F) or just forget everyhtin and just have fun with (K)?

How!?!?

go and listen

張宇愛情條約

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yezFHeE6Muo&feature=related

没关系/张宇

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QljzNOKnQU&feature=related

DRC SG

To TS

After seeing your story, I begin to laugh at myself and realise I was even worst then you in the past. I cry, beg and did whatever I could to make my ex stay.

I ask the same question " why did she rather chose the other guy then me "

My ex left and I was all alone. I drank, did silly things and blame myself for everything.

Yet I could not find the answer on the topic. After many years, I change myself to be a better guy. I study hard, finish uni. Got a good job, mix with gals of different types, trying to understand the answer to the question.

Finally I realise the answer is actually very simple. " I could not provide what the gal wants, at the point of time."

What do I mean?

I was like you in NS (my salary is much lesser then yours ;p ) . She was working and she got to know other guys. She too said the same things to me. I was too dumb to understand back then. But now i know why.

I could not provide for her, she wants more. In singapore, we need money for everything, going out, transport .... She wants to get married with a guy who is able to provide for her. I am not ready back then, having only $100+ a month in NS, I could not even feed myself how am I going to feed her?

Is the same case as (F), how are you going to provide for her? Love does not give you money, sadly only jobs do.

That is the sad truth in life. My suggestion is to let (F) go no point dragging and holding to someone that does not really love you and is looking for more.

Yes is painfull to see her with someone else but if you truly love someone is better to see her happy then sad.

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