Are pre-marital sex really that bad

Lulubethina SG

If you don’t think there’s anything wrong with your behaviour then why would you mind your mother finding out? Don’t let your sister threaten you… let your mother know you sleep around… what’s the issue if there’s nothing wrong with it? If you are worried other people find out then don’t do it in the first place.

ChoCoChips SG

not that i agree with premaritals but at least u got take the necessary precautions lo.

Dr Language SG

Angel: yes can DIY but nothing beats the real thing...sometimes i do have to DIY. I know I have to stop this one day, but its not easy.

Dr. Language: its very disrespectfrul to the girl if I being with her just to get sex. might as well get a sex buddy whom I can have mutual agreement. I will only go into a relationship if my feelings & the girl's is mutual. sex will be later part. if i ever gt a gf, i will respect her and she has to be my best friend. dont forget, being in relationship hurts a lot too. and like i mentioned, all girls in the past have rejected me and now that im turning 30 soon, you think I still got the energy and strenght to take another rejection? its too painful to have my heart broke and pickin up the pieces again & again & again & again & again. I seriously had enough of rejection. I end up taking more than what I could endure.

U oledi say u have no galfren. Now, confirm u do not belief in sex buddy. So where r u getting yer one night stands? If you are visiting prostitutes, it is not a healthy sign. First, physically you r subjecting yerself to STD and Hepatitus disease which can be transmitted thru oral sex. Second, by going to prostitutes, your opinion of women will be degraded.

Without rejection u cannot learn. Try and try again until u succeed. Instead of going after gals, try making more frens n going out to more social gathering to meet the opposite sex. Make frens wif gals first. 30 is still young. I know people in their 40s still not married. Must be more thick skin le.

Veggie Bao SG

Hi...

It is true you are not a child anymore....

But..

You also have to understand.....your elder sister...is your elder sister......

She is not your friend or someone like that.....

So......because she is a family member....her position and her relations to you....is within the inner ring of family relations.....

She is just thinking about your well-being....

Due to that, she may be shocked and uncomfortable when she found out the condom...

Well.....to understand her feelings, maybe you can imagine a similar scenario in reverse....

What if you find a dildo and birthcontrol pill or abortion pill in your sister's room.

How would you feel ?

Would you feel completely normal, "she is an adult already not a child, I shouldnt interfere, never mind"

Maybe to understand it further, imagine if she is your "younger" sister.

I say that because older siblings have stronger inclination to protect the younger siblings.

Well.......

It is an uncomfortable situation for you also.....what I suggest you do is......to keep quiet and to be passive about it.....no need to justify anything and no need to talk about it......

I think you need to protect the siblings relations / family relations and keep it intact......

Sexual matters is taboo and uncomfortable and personal......and its hard to cross over or bring it into the family relations matrix......

So my recommendation :

Keep quiet and let it slide.

Next time be careful and be more discreet.

Undiscoveredsoul98 SG

sex buddy is the best solution for me so i can stick to one. but even as sex buddy, i must make the girl like me in some way, as a companion though not the committed love feelings. i cant even make girls like my as close friend so how am I gonna turn anyone of them into my sex buddy?

Thonglet SG

Your elder sister is someone who likes to play 'control games'.

Threatening to 'tell on you' is her way of putting you in your place. She's telling you 'I'm bigger than you and don't you forget it'.

if your mother entertains her, it is a sure sign that you've got to move out and move on with your life. Surrounded by manipulative bitches, you're going to be a momma's boy and i daresay no woman will ever want to be with you any way.

After all, who would want to marry a man AND his overbearing mother AND his manipulative sister?

Caveat: On the other hand, your mother might just tell her to shut up, sit down and mind her own business to - which is then YOUR cue to do the same.

seotiblizzard SG

Nxt time lock your door.

angel7030 SG

Angel: yes can DIY but nothing beats the real thing...sometimes i do have to DIY. I know I have to stop this one day, but its not easy.

eh...huh, u olso DIY and got for pros, cannot lah, you can only choose one...no wonder after married, most got low sperm count.

eh...I rest my case.

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