why must the issue of whether it is a affair or shall we name it
as a EMA depending on whether there’s any sexual
relationship involved?
S and J are married,it is totally different from
BGF because they are now already husband and wife? Has
S forgotten the vow she took together with J when they walked down
the red carpet? The whole idea about marriage is to live together,
to love each other, to support each other, the merger of soul,
heart and body and not leaving each other regardless of illness,
poverty etc. Marriage is not just a piece of paper stating that you
both are married to each other hence the issue of an affair anot
should not be purely based on whether there’s sexual relation
involved anot.
IMO S should already be considered having affair
because she has already betrayed J in heart and soul. What has
should really do is to see and be realistic into her marriage and
not seek for somemore fairy tale love. Don’t watch too much taiwan
“ou xiang ju” and love J more for wad J did and if it is that hard
to make clear her feeling for L, simply don’t meet L anymore.
Nothing is that hard to do as long as we set our minds to it.
Vow? you still believe in Vows?? my goodness.
Under the eyes of the civil laws, affair is never a crime, but
just a social moral issue.
Now, who give vow to who? the couple give vow to a marriage
counsellor or god, never to each other hor...look at it probably.
The gal never ask the guy to vow, it is the pastor or the marriage
counsellor, so couples are not obligated to love or take care of
each other, after all, the marriage counsellor or pastor also dun
give a damn if you really do it or not.