ok... it knock some sense into my brain now.. 
I would say
it depends on what you are looking for.
If you want
a trophy wife, expect her to be very high in maintenance and not
want to do housework in fear of spoiling her $150
manicure.
Most girls
in SG actually know how to cook and do housework. But knowing and
wanting to do are 2 different things.
Easiest
excuse is “I don’t know”
Anyway for
mail-order-brides there are problems like wanting money all the
time for their family back in “insert country name”, differences in
cultures, unable to contribute to family income etc. Plus, can you
be certain that they will not be influenced by the glitter of city
life in Singapore and develop the wants of a Singapore
girl?
One thing
though which I think SG girls lose out to girls from other
countries is that they do not know how to ‘Tei’ or work their way
around a man’s heart.
SG girls
are treated equally and presented with the same opportunities as
guys. Therefore, they tend to be more straightforward and not try
to work around a man’s heart to get her way, but seen to come forth
as demanding it, or they don’t even bother asking but go purchase
it with their own cash. In this way, I
think that is why SG girls are seen as more demanding and
unreasonable and less feminine. However, if you look at it from
another angle, we are actually less manipulative. Doesn’t help on
the attitude that most SG girls are independent and able to stand
on their own feet too and know their rights that they neglect to
make their guy feel wanted.
The other
problem is that guys are still brought up in Singapore as the
provider and protector of a family unit, which in the end result in
this mismatch of ideals and expectations.
