many sg girls need to tio teach from young

CheeseFriesAddict SG

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[imdestinyz] SG

Yeah what were the jobs women tend to hold in the past?

Receptionist, Secretary, Admin work etc basically work that don’t require a lot of responsibility and basically support work.

Women these days are executives and managers. They have to travel, lead in projects, meetings etc

How many women these days can finish work at 5 or 6 pm to go home and cook and do housework?

So essentially you are saying that men can go home to relax but women who hv the same workload and responsibilities outside do not hv the right to rest at home after work but must slog at home too It's thinking like this that ppl rather not get married these days

Very well said but i believe this issue can still be resolved if the lady wants to. My mum used to knock off work at 7+ and reaches home only at 8 plus. But she'll still cook for us as long as we are willing to wait till 9pm to eat dinner. I still tink that younger generations of females(or perhaps those i personally know) refuses/cant cook.Common excuses like troublesome or the "i dun like to wash plates and cookery are usually given" What appears scary about sg females are their pragmatic persue of monetary gains i tink. But even though they cant/do not like to cook, they can still do housework though. But i believe that things like these shouldn't be labelled as"girls need mothers to teach them how to cook/do housework" because things like these are to be shared b/w the guy and the girl. Work+housework+cooking can be exhausting so best way to go about it is to share the load.Thats probably something for the TS to tink about?

xiaogougou SG

I dont think its a big issue whether a girl can do housework anot. I dont think its a must these days and most guys wont mind one. As long as the lady is a good girl at heart, guys will appreciate her for sure.

But what actually puts guys off are the unrealistic demands and stuck up attitudes of many singaporean women. A lot of singaporean women tend to have the mentality to ask & think of what can the guy do for me, rather than what can I do for my guy.

My bf has to do this for me, my bf has to do that for me. Not often will you hear a sg girl saying I hope to do this for my bf.

Bf becomes like an accessory, not someone dear to you loh.

elindra SG

I do cook during weekends but usually work days I don't at all because when I'm busy I'm home like 10 or 11pm and he would hv starved to death at home Sometimes he is in charge of the cooking if he is even in SG

Basically, our housework is shared and each of us have our own set chores because we do certain things better.

What I'm saying is that due to changes in roles these days, it's ideal it's shared, if not just hire a maid and get over with it. It's unrealistic to expect the female to bear the entire burden on her own.

[imdestinyz] SG

Basically, our housework is shared and each of us have our own set chores because we do certain things better.

yea true that it is unrealistic to expect the female to bear the entire burden, but we should at the very very least expect them to at least be able to bear so burden, meaning i feel they do not have to do everything but at least know how to do something.While it is not right that we make them work+housework+cook and many more. But it is also not right if they tell us say cannot cook, dunno housework blah blah. Though i honestly do not tink that there's alot of such girls. As for xiaogougou: i totally agree with you. What turns us off are the unrealistic expectations and demands of the girl on the guy. Their unreasonable interpretation of whats gentlemen and whats ungentlemen is to me basically an unfair judgement on guys.But well, the creation of this thread is to a certain extent unfair to the ladies as well.

BadzMaro SG

lol . Jsut picture this scenario. You are window shopping and u see something u really liked. Saaaay.... a camera. U really liked it. N your girl or gf actually bought it for u.Ever ? I think quite rare man.. ;p

Now picture a reversed scenario and how many times the guy actually bought her the thing she pointed out she really like when window shopping with you.

I say.. send your women to my Rehabilitation Centre ! I will turn them into the stepford wives you men so eagerly want!

angel7030 SG

Then after u had turn them into a stepford wifeys, you discard them. The cock can cockerel all he wants, but it is the Hen that lay him

Hitman Submarine SG

my sis cant fry an egg...everytime burn ..shes been doin it fer years if not decades.:)

angel7030 SG

well, i love burnt eggs, delicious...yummy! and not everyone can do it, burnt to perfection

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