Okay so this involves 2 of my good friends actually. Called A
and B (duh). Im close with them both since 2004 and recently both
of them are quite hostile just cos of a stupid issue in my opinion.
We are all 21s.
It was 2 years ago that this girl B likes a guy from our school.
I wasnt too aware abt it but i came to know they 2 were steadies.
They broke up just aft a few months. Then this girl A and a few of
her friends went to console B cos she was devastated. I rmbr B
skipped alot of lessons just cos of her heartbreak. We spend alot
of time consolling her and try to make her forget abt the guy. Girl
A was quite close to her and basically u can say they are best of
friends. Eventually B moved on...
Just last week, B called me and was fucking mad abt something.
She said that she came to know A was dating her ex-bf. B said she
was so heartbroken to know the news cos she sees it in a way that
by A dating B's ex-bf, it shows that A is somewhat supportive of
what B's ex-bf did to B prior the break up. I told B to call A and
ask her qtns. B said A wouldnt want to pick up her calls. It makes
me sad to see my best friends fighting over a small issue. Since
the guy is single, he can date whoever he wants right? At the same
time, if my ex-bf mistreats me and my friends know it and one of
them dates him soon after, i will be disappointed too. Not out of
jealousy but comeon, that buy gave me hell and u are in love with
him! Im quite neutral abt this but how do i make them talk to each
other abt it? I know i can help cos i dont have issues with A and
B.
What should i do as a friend?
Two girls fight over a guy ah.. wah... that guy must be in
heaven by now.
A want to date the loser ex-bf.. let her date lor...
One man's poison, may be another man's wine/desert.
B is petty lah.. since the relationship never work out that
doesn't mean no one must date him wat....
You mean it's ok for other girls to date your ex.. just not your
friend or accquaintance ?? Wah.. then next time any girls must
UN-friend you first if they want to date your EX ?
You don't want him, the trash.. then give him to someone else
lor...why get upset over a piece of trash ?
There's a reason why you throw away a piece of trash.. so no
need to get upset when some karang man or your neighbour come along
and pick it up lah...understand ?
A/B is petty lah... they need to grow up.
I suggest you keep quiet.. no need to side anyone. Just remain
neutral.
