If a guy loves him mom means he is not manly enough?

Nelstar SG

Since love is a loose term.

Please define the type of love in the above.

(a) Love as in man-woman love

(b) Love as in parent-child love

Lastly, what is your agony?

the Bear SG

the immature woman will go for the "manly and macho" bad guy because he is "exciting" and thinks she can change him...

if he changes, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he is now no more "the man she fell in love with"

if he doesn't change, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he "doesn't love her enough to change"

either way, hooking up with an immature woman is like (in the words of my friend) masturbating with a cheese grater.. mildly interesting in the beginning but ultimately painful..

^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~ SG

alot of different spoof exist...

Just change the mother to father also can... change to sister or brother also can...

Simply admitting that 2 person have different thinking thus not compatible and move on...

^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~ SG

the immature woman will go for the "manly and macho" bad guy because he is "exciting" and thinks she can change him...

if he changes, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he is now no more "the man she fell in love with"

if he doesn't change, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he "doesn't love her enough to change"

either way, hooking up with an immature woman is like (in the words of my friend) masturbating with a cheese grater.. mildly interesting in the beginning but ultimately painful..

A Girl marry a Guy, hoping he'll change in the future...

A Guy marry a Girl, hoping she wont change in the future

Undiscoveredsoul98 SG

Nelstar, the topic is about men who love their mums. which part dont you understand?

and i just wonder if men who loves their mums means they are not man enough. must we men abandoned our mums who have done a lot for us to be labeled a "man"?

the Bear SG

Nelstar, the topic is about men who love their mums. which part dont you understand?

the part about "love" since the word is loosely bandied around until it's almost lost its meaning...

love is more profound and deep than we can ever understand...

there is eros, agape and lots of other types of love.. all which is amazing...

and if some idiot says that loving a mother means "not manly" the person doesn't even begin to know what the hell the word entails...

understand?

Boyboyb SG

will wife be jealous should a man listens or sayang the mum more ?

Lokey SG

It make sense. Women hates mummy's boy.

Mummy's boy means this guy is not even a growth up kid.

It is like:
do you like Red T-shirts?
My mom says, "blue colour is better".

Do you want to go KFC?
My mom says,"KFC is bad, fried food"

Noticed, it is the mom making the decision for him. And not him himself.

Nelstar SG

Nelstar, the topic is about men who love their mums. which part dont you understand?

and i just wonder if men who loves their mums means they are not man enough. must we men abandoned our mums who have done a lot for us to be labeled a "man"?

Who is asking you to abandon your mother?

likeyou SG

It is ok to love yr mum.

Afterall, yr mum raises you up to a man.

So the most you must love yr mum.

Nothing wrong with it.

I love my mum too.

I also love my wife too.

Ts, u need to allocate time properly.

angel7030 SG

It is ok to love yr mum.

Afterall, yr mum raises you up to a man.

So the most you must love yr mum.

Nothing wrong with it.

I love my mum too.

I also love my wife too.

Ts, u need to allocate time properly.

u olso need to love yr grandma hor, mother in law and the holy mother

BadzMaro SG

the immature woman will go for the "manly and macho" bad guy because he is "exciting" and thinks she can change him...

if he changes, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he is now no more "the man she fell in love with"

if he doesn't change, she'll cry bitterly and leave him because he "doesn't love her enough to change"

either way, hooking up with an immature woman is like (in the words of my friend) masturbating with a cheese grater.. mildly interesting in the beginning but ultimately painful..

lol.. ouch.

angel7030 SG

There are lots of mommy's boy now a day, some guy I went out dunno what size their underwear is, cos mommy buy for them.

But I dun really blame them, cos today family, mostly one or two boys per family, so treated like prince and king, kind of overly pampered. If I become mother, i make sure my son go thru the hard knock of life, get tough and be a real man

angel7030 SG

will wife be jealous should a man listens or sayang the mum more ?

sure, gals like us are easily jealous creature, whether it mom, aunt, grandma or sister, if you treat them nicer than you gf or wife, you got lots of problem, most of my gal frens who are married do not face much problem with their husbands but instead, their Mothers- in- laws. As for Fathers-in-laws, they usually support us, the wife of his son, cos they also hate their own old wife, but no dare to scold them, instead the daughter-in law do the job for them.

angel7030 SG

the part about "love" since the word is loosely bandied around until it's almost lost its meaning...

love is more profound and deep than we can ever understand...

there is eros, agape and lots of other types of love.. all which is amazing...

and if some idiot says that loving a mother means "not manly" the person doesn't even begin to know what the hell the word entails...

understand?

Let love be simple, to be or not to be, if you define love too deep, it goes out of sense and cause lots of confusion, to some love is poison, to some love is glory.

UNDERSTAND?

likeyou SG

u olso need to love yr grandma hor, mother in law and the holy mother

grandmum gone, holy mother...sorry...I hv only 1 mum + 1 mum in law.

I dont care a damn on holy mother.

angel7030 SG

you good lor, i got no mum, no mum in law, no holy mum only got one rich grandmum everyday keep nagging at me..nevermind...i waiting silently...got $$$

Nelstar SG

There are lots of mommy's boy now a day, some guy I went out dunno what size their underwear is, cos mommy buy for them.

one hard knock on the wrong spot become eunuch.

angel7030 SG

Arrgh!! i hate Nelstar, I hate Nelstar, I hate Nelstar!!!

Lokey SG

It make sense. Women hates mummy's boy.

Mummy's boy means this guy is not even a growth up kid.

It is like:
do you like Red T-shirts?
My mom says, "blue colour is better".

Do you want to go KFC?
My mom says,"KFC is bad, fried food"

Noticed, it is the mom making the decision for him. And not him himself.

But respect and love for father and mother is very important. I dont think it does not means he is not "man" enough. But respect and love =/= mummy's boy.