i just want my mum to leave me alone. she is my maid or
what ? when i come home, she comes out of her room purposely
to see me. she will keep asking me if i eat or not. if
not, she will run into the kitchen and cook. when i lock
myself in my room, and come out to go to toilet, she will peep at
me from her room. try all means and way to talk to me when i
already tell her to PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE. when the children
don't talk to her, she will start getting sick and seek
attention.
what the hell is her problem ?
i don't want her doing all these things for me. i don't
want her to serve me. i don't want her to try so hard.
she is my mum, not my maid. she is a free human, not a slave
to her children and family.
i just want her to live her own life, have her own life. and not
be so attached to us. stop controlling. stop influencing. let
me live my own life. stop trying so hard.
Where is your father ?
The only problem is, she is very lonely. No love from her
husband, no love from her own child.
Show her a little bit of love occasionally, so she don't have to
work so hard to earn some love from you.
Every mother is afraid of losing the love of her own children..
instead of giving her reassurance through your action... you are
showing your disgust .
Once a while bring her out for lunch or dinner. Give her a
little update when you can.... She will ease up eventually.
