I will like to intro her to the way of thinking, most of these
people lack of thinking skills and end up with either
with only one way thinking or simply think wildly without any basis
and framework to follow. And bear in mind I do collect fees for
advices on thinking skills but for the sake of my siao bun bun here
and many other goondo forumers, like me give you a few tips on
thinking skill before you embark on anything.
1st, before you do anything, for example, finding a job, please
collect infomation first and put it into your brain, collect as
much information as possible, like what skill is needed, what is
the company situation, how is the culture etc etc, collect
information only, do not analyse it yet, because if you analyse
while collect thing, you will end up debating on one information
and forget other important information.
2nd, sit down, spread out the information you collected, place
them at specific category, like benefit in one rows, people
mentality and culture in another, and so on, study it and feel it,
does it suit you, or do you have other alternatives or interviews
which you can go and collect more infomation to compare, set your
priorty, but dun go into conclusion yet
3rd, after collect all the information from all the interview
you attended, spread it out again on specific category, then
compare and see which is better than the other, from transportation
to pay to working hrs and even career advancement. Then take the
one that seem benefit you the most
4th, be cool, let the mind think, before going to accept it,
check back, what have you miss out, any flaws in it, then finally,
challenge yourself, ask yourself question, if I take this job, what
will happen, can i get upgraded, is it really what i am looking
for, after 5 years of working, can I advance from this job, and so
on. People tends to forget to challenge themselves before embarking
on job or other matters, that is why, most end up regretted,
demoralised and sad.
5th, once you have make up your mind, be firm and tell yourself
never to regret on what decision you make, cos you have gone thru
and think of it in a structured way, then, end up with your gut
feeling, a kind of six sense thinking that focus on whether you
will make it in this job or not, this is very important, dun blind
blind go knock on the wall end up get nothing because you lack the
six sense to feel it.
6th, once everything is decided, be happy, smile and thinking
clearly.
This type of thinking apply to all thing, from getting a job, a
bf, a game console, a TV, etc etc.
Angel
Thinking Conn sultant
290, Joo Chiat Road
Hourly Parking available
yes go and learn a bit of social skill from this gal
you need her social skill to survior in this cruel world.
you can cry, you can do anything to hurt yrself, ppl might show
you pity in here.
but once you step out of that shell you yrs, the strong will
survior and the week will still cry alone.
if you need real man to teach you, i think you need a man to
turn you into a real woman.
* learn this Woman of 20 to 30 years that dont enjoy SEX
will look like 40-50 years old. due to lack of love. this is the
truth.
