Why am i so unlucky in love?

last SG · 2011-03-10T00:50:12+00:00

Why of all preditable gals in singapore, you go for a unpredicatable one..haiz

yukun SG

I'm seventeen this year and currently am studying in high school. (comparable to JC 1 in SG)

Well here's the thing. Ive never had an easy experience with regards to relationships in school. They have always been multilayed with complex connections being the norm.

For example in my current school;

I like girl A who has a boyfriend Guy A, but girl A likes me also (i think). Classmate girl B likes me who has a guy, guy B, who likes girl B. Then comes along girl C who is in the same club as me who likes me who once again has a guy, guy C who like girl C.

I'm not really the social butterfly of the class, more of a loner (as what girl A) told me. Hence im not too sure as to what i should. I really like girl A but she has a boyfriend......

Is this normal or exceptional. It has been like this since primary school.....damn sian.....

Fcukpap SG

enjoy all girls A, B, C and so on in your youth....treasure the moments that will never return

things will change after your NS....

Manchesterdude1 SG

Another Korean/Taiwan drama .....

mancha SG

You have Girl A, Girl B and Girl C, all of whom likes you. And you consider yourself unlucky???

Boy A, Boy B and Boy C like those girls, thats their problem, and for them to chase those girls. You have got half the battle made, the rest is up to you.

If you don't follow up with the girls, Boys A,B and C will tackle them and get them away from you.

You have been lucky since primary school, but you just stand there gong gong.

Genopooh SG

so what's next? either u try to woo girl A or you wait for them to break up. of course, using underhand means will make the process faster. lOl. study la. gf for what.

soleachip SG

I'm seventeen this year and currently am studying in high school. (comparable to JC 1 in SG)

Well here's the thing. Ive never had an easy experience with regards to relationships in school. They have always been multilayed with complex connections being the norm.

For example in my current school;

I'm not really the social butterfly of the class, more of a loner (as what girl A) told me. Hence im not too sure as to what i should. I really like girl A but she has a boyfriend......

Is this normal or exceptional. It has been like this since primary school.....damn sian.....

it's normal for relationships to be complex. only when they're easily definable then u're in trouble. just decide who u like and go after her lah. boyfriend nia, not as if she's married.

love is a battlefield!

Rooney9 SG

if the ger you fancy doesnt likes you, then go for the next girl you like, dun waste your time pursuing unrealistic targets.

life is like that, you like the girl, who doesnt like you. the girl that you doesnt like, likes you.

angel7030 SG

if the ger you fancy doesnt likes you, then go for the next girl you like, dun waste your time pursuing unrealistic targets.

life is like that, you like the girl, who doesnt like you. the girl that you doesnt like, likes you.

hello, dun take us gal as target hor, we also got feeling one hor, if we dun like, so be it, most guy like to curse on we gal when we reject them, that is very unfair!!

angel7030 SG

I'm seventeen this year and currently am studying in high school. (comparable to JC 1 in SG)

Well here's the thing. Ive never had an easy experience with regards to relationships in school. They have always been multilayed with complex connections being the norm.

For example in my current school;

I'm not really the social butterfly of the class, more of a loner (as what girl A) told me. Hence im not too sure as to what i should. I really like girl A but she has a boyfriend......

Is this normal or exceptional. It has been like this since primary school.....damn sian.....

It is not a matter of unlucky in love, it is all because you never check it out before going for the gal, most of the gal, A-Z you takes mostly got bf already, why go destroy other people life, if you want and dun mind a older gf, I am available, single and fun to be with...me 5 years older than you

yukun SG

Well i do have to admit i have been lucky thus far with regards to the fact that there are infact girls that like me . Did almost go into a relationsip with a single girl that i liked and she liked me in Sec 2 but thought it was too young an age to get gf. (mommy's boy here).

Got this girl in Sec 3 chase me alot but i didn't make a move. Maybe thats why i so unlucky now. (is God punishing me??) I still feel really bad for hurt. Imagine the hurt i caused her by not properly rejecting her....

Study ?? Well i'm currently the top student in my year group (class nerd) who is taking 4 A2 Alvls subjects.... (getting boring/sian.. my best friends all textbooks for now...) Componded by the fact that i'm currently studying overseas (not in sg) alone and living alone (no parents nor guardians) and the fact that i just changed schools recently hence haven't really fitted in with my friends/classmates. Makes me feel very lonely.

Sigh.... Best not to disturb the relationship of girl A (girl i like) i guess. What evil one commits will eventually come around eh?? (later kenna bad karma again). She has only been in the relationship for about half a year....

Well most important question will be:

How should i forget about her?? as in disconnect the emotional link that we created betweeen us (just remain as friends/classmate or for our case, academic rivals(she's the class female nerd (quite pretty by my standard)).We kinda like each other and i think the feeling's mutual....( she almost always purposely sits beside me during almost all the lessons we have together (about 10hours per week).

I do apologise for the prolific use of singlish here. I just feel that some dialects or languages convey emotions of people more effeciently,singlish, which i feel is one such example.

Thanks People!! All replies are greatly appreciated!!

yukun SG

just to add alittle more...

Need advice before this gets too serious....

(even sat all the way infront of teacher (first row) purposely where i usually sit even when her boyfriend was at the back of the class. So far boyfriend does not suspect anything(one year below our class still OLvL..heng....)

pretty wierd interacting with her. Somedays we get cosy with each other another day just totally ignore each other.(today purposely sat one chair away from her (classrooms quite small), she stared at the chair first then glared at me....)

Better end this thing before something bad happens.... Any tips on getting rid of theemotional attachment? (kinda vague attachment...sigh why like korean/taiwan drama

one?..... : [

coffeebreak SG

you cannot stop your emotions..

if u like someone, u like someone... if you dont like someone, you dont like someone... its as simple as tat

so now u like this girl a, you will continue to like her... dont try to lie to yourself or deny your own feeling.. what u can decide however is to choose how you wanna like her.. as in like a good fren, like a buddy, like a girlfren... tat is for you to decide

angel7030 SG

and olso, like is not Love hor

likeyou SG

Ts, better to concentrate yr studies. Gf later.

angel7030 SG

ya, study gynaelogy, later know everything about girl

likeyou SG

ya, study gynaelogy, later know everything about gir

Any majoring will do.

Just study and get yr damn cert.

Next, do yr damn 2 yrs of ns.

Next, go to work with yr cert, from there go relationship.

Simple as abc.

angel7030 SG

Any majoring will do.

Just study and get yr damn cert.

Next, do yr damn 2 yrs of ns.

Next, go to work with yr cert, from there go relationship.

Simple as abc.

then, start as executive and compete with foreign talents, then gals go for MD and GM, end up TS still single at 40

likeyou SG

then, start as executive and compete with foreign talents, then gals go for MD and GM, end up TS still single at 40

That is fated liao. Fated to be single.

Guy 40 still young and strong. Right?

Gals 40 bye bye liao.

angel7030 SG

40yo still strong meh, typical local guys are really living in an aging society.

likeyou SG

40yo still strong meh, typical local guys are really living in an aging society.

40...strong and good. Mature with decent earning. No good meh?