TS,
The very fact that you are here posting to gain opinions or
advice or ... is telling that unwittingly you are
insecure and sadly deep within u conscious
of race!
If for eg I see myself as a chinese, malay or .... i m
bound to see or be conscious of another's race. If I am comparing
myself with others with what I am , what I do, what I have - it is
inevitable that i would do the same with another.
Parents, friends, society are mere excuses!
One can conform and lose oneself and still compromise
but at the end of it all - one cannot escape what one is
within.
When one does not transcend one's innate bigotry, prejudice -
nothing suffices. Till one understands, acknowledges, reconciles
and hopefully transcend these conditioning(s) it is going to be
difficult and to wish it away or hoping that something
outside of oneself would ''fix'' ..... is
being unwise.
Love always comes faceless!
