adultery has always been a birthmark since humans are
born....historically and 4ever...like it or not...
multifactors and not just one...or just one gender issues....it
takes TWO willing parties and not just any one gender's
fault....and no one gender should shoulder all punishments and
liabilities.....
the betrayer and the partner-in-crime should both be punished to
the effect of fairness...
but marital issues are much more complex than that....the victim
should also understand that the problem may also arise from his or
her own unwillingness to change towards the needs of the other
which led to a breakdown in marriage....BOTH should have sought
ways to revive and to the last resort via counselling it could
not.....then a divorce would be inevitable....before mistakes are
made externally.....
still, the issues are complicated further with unbalanced divorce
policies....which deter one side of the gender to have the problem
resolved...as great legal liabilities would ensue.....which led to
unresolved marriage cold wars and resulting in discreet
betrayal.....
it is a systemic effect.....and there is no straigtforward way to
resolve....but it would begin with a fair and balanced
psychological report and recommendations up to the system...
can the system start looking at it? certain intervention is needed
here....