Do I really stand a chance or not?

last SG · 2011-02-17T13:57:25+00:00

Kor, why u keep cursing Missbonkers?? cannot be friend meh?

-milkbottle- SG

Need some help and interpretation from girls about this issue.

I'm have been pursuing a girl for the past few months. I sense that she is giving me some mixed signal, I could be wrong so I needed some help here.

1) Normally if she is not interested, a girl will avoid a guy whenever she sense that the guy is courting her. I've tried to court and did some sweet things for her and she did not avoid me but each time when I tried to ask her out she turned it down.

2) Even after she turned me down for dates each time, she would still gives me "signals" like smiling at me whenever I talk to her, smiles each time when we made eye contact, walking close to me, not rejecting my calls or messages and playfully touch my arms sometimes.

3) Gave her a letter during valentine's day and she thank me for the letter. Had a chat after that, she told me she felt pressurized because I was too nice to she at times and she wants me to treat her like a normal friend.

So how should I approach this situation ? Do I still stand a chance or is she really not interested at all ?

DailyFreeGames.com SG

if you really like her alot, keep pursuing her lah… relationships have to be built and nurtured, cannot be that if she dun love me today means cannot together, like that die lah most strangers don’t know each other how to continue… if you like someone, just go ahead lah… reject then it’s ok, try again next time with a new target or something… i am sure you can find a girlfriend one lah…

jojobeach SG

Need some help and interpretation from girls about this issue.

I'm have been pursuing a girl for the past few months. I sense that she is giving me some mixed signal, I could be wrong so I needed some help here.

So how should I approach this situation ? Do I still stand a chance or is she really not interested at all ?

She is saying yes to what you are giving her, the attention, the conveniences and the good stuff you are trying to bait her with.

BUT she is saying no to you the person.

She wants to continue receiving, as long as you keep giving.

Give yourself a dateline, and stick to it. By one/two weeks time, if she is still lukewarm to your advances.. it's time to let this one go.

Fire Cracker SG

oh she had "REJECTED" u unofficially.

if a lady like a guy she will go to him instead. that's a "CLICK"

so for your case it's over. no clicks.

^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~ SG

Chiu hab received teh "Good Friend" Card from here...

plz move on...

Hitman 2010 SG

Need some help and interpretation from girls about this issue.

I'm have been pursuing a girl for the past few months. I sense that she is giving me some mixed signal, I could be wrong so I needed some help here.

So how should I approach this situation ? Do I still stand a chance or is she really not interested at all ?

treat her like a friend and shes bound to end up in bed doing all the positions u ordered in the book from amazon .com

Hitman 2010 SG

there is no such a thing as instant love that comes outa a packet like instant noodles.

most gals are kinda not sexually aroused especially if they are from this part of asia as compared to horny girls from japan and parts of europe.

try i mpressing her with a sports car or a solid gold ring.

Hitman 2010 SG

just dun show her solid gold teeth and all those ugly stuff no matter how expensive they might be.

Julian.khor SG

Need some help and interpretation from girls about this issue.

I'm have been pursuing a girl for the past few months. I sense that she is giving me some mixed signal, I could be wrong so I needed some help here.

So how should I approach this situation ? Do I still stand a chance or is she really not interested at all ?

1) Not necessary, depend on the gal. Gal oso got many character. For example:

Angel7030: Open minded cute n conversational gal.

LittleMissBonkers: Pure Bitch.

Acid: Guy or Gurl?

2) U neva know, only trying will give u the result

3) Neva know for sure. Keep her in KIV, while u approach others. So when u fail, at least u got back up plan.

FireIce SG

she is enjoying the attention but no want to go more than tt

so u shd keep ur distance but still keep her happy.
MAYBE in near future u have chance

angel7030 SG

Firstly hor, i like to say that touch guy arms like giving them a pat or slap over a joke is our usual gal reaction, do not take it as we like or love you hor. There is alot of misunderstanding in this body language.

From a gal perspectives, you got no hope, not that I want to give you any dream like the above poster, you simply got no hope. If you need to find love desparately, can come to my pub at 290 joo chiat road.

Julian.khor SG

Aiyoh ! Don't ! Angel is Mamasan recruiter. Afterward, Mamasan Lingmei turn u into working gal, worse than yer bf, all the customer there dirty minded Japanese men like to sodomize, PCC and like multiple piercing.

angel7030 SG

haiz, at least I am trying to help them to wake up and also realize from their dream

elindra SG

Need some help and interpretation from girls about this issue.

I'm have been pursuing a girl for the past few months. I sense that she is giving me some mixed signal, I could be wrong so I needed some help here.

So how should I approach this situation ? Do I still stand a chance or is she really not interested at all ?

She could be playing hard to get too

Give her attention for a week and than ignore her and see if she comes running to you

angel7030 SG

Cannot, during that one week, if someone take over, TS go back drink milkbottle liao. For TS, if he really like her, go all the way, just get her out as a friend, not as a date, then talk it over once and for all, from my gal instinct, she could had already a guy with her or she likes

elindra SG

If that's the case it means the girl has already made up her mind

TS can talk until his saliva runs dry and he will just be wasting his time anyway.

Running after her is just pandering to her wants

He might as well ignore her and see if she comes running back

angel7030 SG

If that's the case it means the girl has already made up her mind

TS can talk until his saliva runs dry and he will just be wasting his time anyway.

Running after her is just pandering to her wants

He might as well ignore her and see if she comes running back

yalor, you know we gals lah, already attached but still want to seek attention, which gal dun like attention, if you gives me flowers and expensive gift, sure I want lah, even tho I got 10 bf outside, sure I smile at him, in fact, I smile at every guy and touch them too when they crack jokes, but that is our behavior and emotion, the problem is that most guys take it as serious and start to have wild dream. You dun expect me to show a sour face everyday at guy right, and sometime you may not know, some girls smile at a guy because he looks stupid and behave like a nerd.

For TS, there is certainly no hope, more on to the next flower

Hwaimeng SG

Need some help and interpretation from girls about this issue.

you try gaving her some gift she will still accept, try gaving her some shit next time, i think she will throw it at yr face

did you expect her to point middle finger at wyou when you meet her???

do you understand word "Normal Friend"

So how should I approach this situation ? Do I still stand a chance or is she really not interested at all ?

"yes you do stand a chance but she wan you to slow down" at the same time maybe its mean contunie to be the kuku that dote on her but unable to eat her.

Julian.khor SG

For TS, there is certainly no hope, more on to the next flower

gUD, u have 10 bf outside.

Miss Little Bonkers hv no bf. Nobody want want Miss Little Bonkers.

angel7030 SG

gUD, u have 10 bf outside.

Miss Little Bonkers hv no bf. Nobody want want Miss Little Bonkers.

eh...sir, i mean 10 buffalos