Ok ok let's say you hooked up with a single mother who's a
caucasian....but you're living in a society like SG...how do you
overcome remarks and criticisms from family and friends....I mean
it's reality we are talking about not some hollywood drama that
lives happily ever after story
Besides cultural barriers you need to deal with evil eyes stares
how come your child look angmoh not mixed type of remarks...etc
Especially because it is reality, then regardless whether the
person you've hooked up with is single mother/with child or single
without child - there is NEVER a guarantee that anyone has a
happily ever after story.
So I figure, instead of figuring how to stop friends and family
from talking (which they will), focus instead on understand the
already more complicated bonds within the relationship.
Afterall, its only if others reflect your fear and insecurities,
that you need to worry about it.