look for a better tree in the forest lah. perhaps not better,
but at least one that suits you more lah.
imagine if the two of you managed to commit into a relationship,
ask yourself, is she someone you could be with, for the next 10, 20
years?
can you stand her neurotism? if you can, go for it. if you
can't, just abort and save yourself alot of trouble.
its very stressful on your mental health when you have to fight
a cold war every few weeks, without even understanding why she
started the cold war.
Its less painful to not jump into the relationship at the start,
then to pull out of a soured relationship.