Actually, marriage is just a buzz word both in paper and legal
aspect, it is just an announcement to the world that you are
married, by and large, those couple not yet married are more lovier
and romantic than those married.
However, people tends to take marriage seriously, it put a
couple into legal rights, black and white, rules and regulations
with terms and conditions. Marriage is created by men, no religion
said that you must marry, it just said, man and woman, go built
your family and borne childrens as your decendent.
As for me, as a gal, marriage dun work for me, i will spell some
terms with my husband to be, and as you know, before marrying, guy
will do all kind of shit for a gal, so put it in the legal paper,
after married, a few month down the road, create problem for
him...catch him on the tail, make him loose face, then he declares
divorce, and that is the time I take in the harvest. You got to be
smart hor, make full use of marriage and the women charter laws to
your advantage
Why you sounded so protective ? Yes the women charter is here to
protect women, but dun abuse it mah...why u wanna find trouble for
him? You mean you will married and then divorced for a huge $$$ ?
Is that your plan??!