The romance has faded away. The passion dying.
Now he is feeling restricted, and yearn for more freedom and
privacy. He wants to regain his independence. What seems ok
previously is now unforgiveable. Previously you late one hour, he
is all smiles and says its alright, now, he cannot
tahan if you are late five minutes.
He also want to provoke resentment and explode into rage, by
walking separately from you. He want you to notice that and comment
on it, then he will spew venom. He is now thinking of himself more
and more. He is not communicating with you, and it is all in his
head.
What you can do is trust him. Don't peep or be interested in his
SMSs. Talk to him in a normal tone, as usual, as if nothing is
happening. The tone of your voice is important, because he is
itching for a quarrel, and your normal good times tone is crucial
to preventing him getting angry.
Joke and talk with him as you do previously, but don't over act.
This phase will pass soon, hopefully. He is at present possessed by
selfishness, you can either provoke or sooth him.
If despite all best effort, there is no improvement or he really
has another girl in his sight, let us know.
ok... thank u for your advice...