Dear fellow forumers,
Hello there.
First of all, let me do a bit of an introduction of myself since
it is my first post here.
I am 28 this year, currently working as a higher level executive
in a local company, and is also pursuing a bachelors honours
degree. About 2 years ago, I married a China girl in Singapore.
Yes, initially I thought my life is fulfilling, having a good
career with good pay and decent bonuses, and good future, got a
loving wife and planning to have kids, but now, things are not what
it had seemed.
Initially, she left my side due to her critically ill mother who
was diagnosed with stomach cancer not long after we ROM. As a
caring and understanding husband, I did not hesitate to allow her
to go back and care for her dying mother which doctors predicted
that she has only a year or so to live. All I thought of was, to
let her mum to be cared for and to allow my wife to fulfill her
fillial peity.
I do visit her a few times a while when she is back in China,
and remain in close contact through SMSes and phone calls. However,
things have turned for the worse and we ended up quarrelling over
the phone over certain issues frequently. I do not blame her for
being like this partly due to her mother's condition
Lately, for the past few months, she has remain uncontactable,
and I am eager to know about her whereabouts. The thought of her
going missing or being harmed frequently bothers my mind that I
suffer mild depression, ending up neglecting my studies and
under-performing my job.
I am a desperate man now wanting to know about the whereabouts
of my beloved wife, but I do not know how do I start with. I have
thought of seeking help from the embassy of China, but chances of
them assisting to locate my wife is slim due to the vast population
in China.
I am at my wits end, thats why I am writing in SGforums to seek
advises. Non constructive sentences are not welcomed in this
thread. I seek your understanding.
Please help me .... Thank you very much and I am truly
grateful