Forget is only a loss of temporary memory, our brain is so
unique that it alway want to re visit any past special events in
our life, be it sad or happy. So, if a person, after going thru a
big event of his/her life said he/she had forget it,
it is a lie, a self deny, a betray of one mind.
Forgive is more of an emotion to let the issue settle down,
alots of time, because people cannot change the event or could not
find a better solution to their problem, they seek forgive to cool
down, most of the time, forgive means forgiving oneself than
others, cos most of the time, the other dun give a damn whether you
forgive them or not.
Other than physical pain, emotional pain is self make, self
suffering and self developed. By understanding the essence that
nothing last forever, emotional pain shall cease to exist. On the
other hand, pain is also a wake up call, a road to enlightment. It
is alway at the brink of the end of life that people realized what
they had been doing and going thru with pain is simply nothing but
stupid.
