Mutual benefit scheme (scheming) - to simplify, both
use each other to fufil ....? Beware the
human mind especially when it comes to justifying, rationalizing.
it is fine if they are dead things. Relationship is a thing. There
is nothing in a relationship if one nor the other cannot relate to
him/her self first. Otherwise, the relationship is going to suffer
whether one knows it or not.
In this instance, it is a pimp, it does not matter. Nothing is
permanent and people do change. One can also find a jaw-dropping
contoured lady with a loving heart or assets or whatever one can
relate to. Who knows this pimp could have been this
jaw-dropping... one year ago. and who can predict that this
jaw-dropping contoured lady can become.
It would be wise to understand that one is dealing with a human
being - who emotes, who palpitates and is subject to the vagaries
of moods, emotions and not forget the bigotry, the
prejudices.
Stupididty is being and wanting all to be permanent. Dead things
are permanent.
Love but dont blame the other or if/when the blame is
apportioned on another for what oneself feels, what
oneslef endures or has to ... that is not love and it was never
love. it was needs/expectations that the other fulfil ''me'' that
was pretending love. The frustration(s) is always a by-product of
needs n expectations.
Life is a flux and to make it a business especially love is the
worse indignity to oneself and the other. It is dehumanizing
oneself and ....