Here is the summary:
I am a guy, Chinese, 26 years old, I have a gf/24, we have been
dating for close to 4 years already. She is a very caring, pretty
and in short, my perfect other half. We see each other every other
day during the week. And we spend quality time together during the
weekends. I am very close to her family and she is close to my
family as well.
Now here is the problem:
We seem to quarrel excessively over petty issues, like once a
week or once every two weeks, and she will mention break up or
threaten to walk out of the relationship which makes me blow my top
and hurl vulgarities, curse and swear at her. Initially she will
keep calling and smsing me to resolve the problem, but I was always
too mad at her to sit down and talk. So the matter drags overnight
and from the next day onwards, I will always be the one "stalking"
her, but she will just refuse all my calls and SMSes.
Most of the time, she will relent after a day or two and we
patched back and resume our "happy times" as if nothing has
happened before, but a similar quarrel happens again before long
and the same old shit repeats itself.
This time it happened again and my gf asked for a breakup:
My gf says the reason for asking for a breakup is that:
1. I cant manage a small quarrel and give in to her.
2. I cant stop scolding vulgarities at her.
So I am confused right now, should I chase her back at all costs
or let her go? Thanks in advance for all advices!
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