I think the TS may have a geniune case here… Just because you
all never had a relative such as his uncle doesn’t mean there isn’t
1 such person around.
My advice to the TS… At this stage, you need to adobt the Godly
attitude already, forgive and forget. Forgive your enemies. As for
your life, just because it’s in bad shape now doesn’t mean it’s in
bad shape forever. Why would you say you have no future when the
Macdonalds founder was a poor salesman all the way until 50+ years
old, and from there on he actually started building his empire… You
haven’t 50 years old you already give up, then you cannot expect
others to have faith in you… To have others believe in yourself,
first and foremost, you must believe in yourself.
From my experience, no point in zi bao zi chi (self defeating
attitude), you must embrace the “no matter how tough life is, i am
tougher than it, i will survive and become successful” type of
attitude. and you need to let go of this burden about your enemy
(aka ur uncle). hatred is a toxic emotion, do not let it become
your master… forgive your enemies is the best thing you can do…