I have a gf for 2 yrs .We are same age,25.She always accuses me
of seeing girls and doing msn with them. I am not allowed to see my
guy buddies for drinks. I was ok when we started but now I feel she
is like a nuisance to my life. But break-up with her she will cry
like hell.I am sick and tired.
Have you thought if you would allow your gf to see and msn chat
with other guys frequently?
As for drinks with your guy buddies, have a stand. While you
have to spend time with your girl as well, you need to spend some
time for your friends too. You can make sure that you spend much
more time with your girl than your guy friends.
The question is, why do you feel like she's a nuisance now? What
changed? Are you afraid of commitment?
All relationships will often come to a point where you have to
decide to continue or stop. It could happen frequently, but with
each decision, you learn more of what you want, and what the other
party wants. Compromises will have to be made on both sides, not
just one side.
