He will chat over msn with her at night, so i know he's talking
to her. I have talked to him about it, said i was fine if he talked
to her like few days a week but everyday is really too much for me.
He said it was just a phase and it was nothing.
At first, I accepted what he said and I trained myself to accept
it. But later on, i found out some things which showed me that he
was very attached to her emotionally...i suppose it's more of an
emotional affair than physical affair.
Our relationship is okay i guess...just that sometimes there's
nothing to say when we are both at home after work.
Hmmmm everynite...seem like your hubby ex colleague is having some
problems at home or at work or family?
Ask him can he let me see what you smses? And if he's willing to
let you see, probably it is just a friendship relationship, nothing
much.
If he feel uncomfortable, then something fishy going on.
Try out this method, try to be tactful towards your hubby. Dont
make him feel awkard.